I have since completed military service and am pursing a more rewarding career. No parent man or woman should rely on child support as a means to an end. No parent should feel entitled to child support when they constantly deny a court order willfully without reason. No parent should live with their own aging parents, work a minimum wage job, receive social services and then try to milk the other parent who has other children and or spouse for child support. Misery loves company. Money, control and oppression was what my ex spouse was after and he got it. Only the non-custodial parent knows what he or she has done and could do. Life is short and full of trouble. I worry less of those who do not know my battle and worry more about what I have control over. The mental anguish, allowing visitation or communication when he says disregarding the court order or my life is something I no longer entertain. A leopard does not change their spots and it is true the child/children are the ones who truly suffer. I know I have done everything in my power to be apart of our child’s life so I will not bore anyone with the details. I wish the souls who are suffering this tragedy peace.

Like I said in the post, I think whether or not we define life as beginning at conception is irrelevant to the decision of whether or not abortion should be legal. I think the people you are writing about do exist, no doubt, but crazy people exist on the extremes of every issue. I know of no person who expresses glee about the idea of an abortion. I know of no woman who was lackadaisical about getting an abortion. But even if such people do exist, I don’t think their existence is a reason to deny the right to an abortion.